Have you every heard of Personal Development?

Okay, raise your hand if you’ve ever heard anything about personal development or self help. I believe that every hand on the internet just went up and if you didn’t put your hand up it’s because you have heard about personal development and are saying “not this again, please.”

Believe me I know the feeling about saying “what are you kidding me, this again.” Because I have been involved for years and I have tried  a lot of different things. The one thing that I can say with complete honesty is that I have not tried everything because I can guarantee you that something out there will work for you.

Okay Tagrichdude, so why is Personal Development SO IMPORTANT?

Well, I’ll tell you. The reality of life is that nothing is ever staying the same. You and I are always going one way, either forwards or backwards. If you aren’t focusing on what you want in life then you are focusing on what you don’t want in life and living in a state of fear over what you think is going to happen. I know because I have spent a great deal of time in this space. And the reality of it is that you can’t be in 2 spaces at once. Your either thinking about where you want to go or you’re thinking about what your afraid of. Now you can switch back and forth but you can only think of one at a time and the one that produces the greatest amount of emotional feeling (good or bad) is the place that you’re going to be going more consistently because feelings train and condition the nervous system in your body and sets up a pathway to access the feeling, either good or bad, more easily. And after a while you go to that feeling by Default. And if the feeling is bad, that just plain sucks.

So what do I do first?

Well I’m glad you asked because the first thing everyone must do is know where they are going and make sure that you choose where you are going and not let default choose for you.

Here is the FIRST 4 STEPS to accomplish anything:

STEP 1: Have a goal or outcome that you choose.

STEP 2: Get going on it or take action towards what you haven chosen.

STEP 3: Take notice of what you getting. Are getting closer to you goal or further away?

STEP 4: If you’re getting further away then change what you are doing to move you towards what you want.

You’ve probably heard this before and if you haven’t then this is the giant picture of accomplishment of anything. And I do mean anything.

Do you know what gets over looked by most and is Huge in Success?

Association gets over looked way to much and I’m not sure why. We have template sayings like: hang with thieves and you’ll become a thief. Like attracts like. Water seeks it’s own level and many more. The point of these sayings is simple. Who ever you spend you time with, your going to be of the same mindset. Take a look around when you go for a drive or just think about this. Do Millionaires live in neighborhoods where people make $35,000 per year? Nope, in fact if you walk around that neighborhood you’ll likely find that people in that neighborhood are making roughly the same amount of money per year. Like attracts like, not my rule, just is.

So back to quitting your job and firing your boss. This is going to require you to get with some like minded people. People that can help you change your financial situation and your life and that is the community that I am in at Wealthy Affiliate University and I want you to be part of my journey to saying goodbye to my job so Join Me Now for $0 and take control of your life

Please if you have comments or questions leave them below or if you have heard about any Personal Development advice, let me know, I always love learning new things. Onward and Forward my Friends 🙂